Saturday 20 November 2021

How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Butch

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 I am a big fan of the “butch” culture and a huge fan of the women who embrace it. I am a big fan of the women who embrace the butch culture but don’t always know that embracing it is a good thing.

We all have that “butch” attitude. For some, it’s the opposite, a kind of “Butch-lite” attitude where the culture isn’t so much about sex and love, but about self-improvement and all-around self-confidence.


Butch culture is the subculture of men who prefer to live their lives by their own rules and standards.


It’s a culture that’s based on respect for women and a self-imposed set of rules. It’s a cultural philosophy that stresses how cool, unique, and sexy everything a woman is. It’s a culture that is based on self-esteem, and it’s a culture that emphasizes that women can be whatever they want to be.


It’s a culture that thrives on getting women to be happy. Butch is a culture of self-love. And though that sounds like a great idea, it’s not. Self-love can be damaging. Because it’s the belief that we can be whatever we want to be, and it’s the belief that we can get to that goal by getting women to be happy.


The problem with this view of women is that it doesn’t help you.


Being happy is something that you can’t just choose to do. It’s something that you have to earn, and if you don’t earn it, you don’t have it. It’s something that you have to work for, and if you don’t work for it, you don’t have it.


Self-love is a bad idea because it comes with a high cost. It’s the belief that we can be whatever we want to be, and that we can get to that goal by getting women to be happy. In reality, we can’t make ourselves happy just by working on ourselves.


And if we think we can,


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we tend to be a lot more likely to try to make the other person happy instead of ourselves. If you’re trying to make yourself happy, you’re going to be more likely to stop working as hard as you can, because you’re worried that you’ll be unhappy. Self-love is not an option, because you have to earn it. So stop worrying and start loving yourself.


Butch is a good example of someone who has learned how to love himself but is still worrying about making other people happy. I’ve often thought that if I could become a better version of Butch, it would be worth it to sacrifice some of my own happiness for a little bit of happiness for others.


What a lot of people don't realize is that being a “good” person is not the same as being a “good” person.


That implies that all you have to do to be a good person is be a good person. Not that we have to be nice to others or do something nice for ourselves. What makes a good person is doing things that make other people happy. It’s not being nice and not doing good deeds.


A study conducted by psychologists at Oxford University found that people who take the time to be nice to others are more likely to have a better quality of life than those who just avoid being nice altogether. In the video above I demonstrate how being nice to others makes us feel good. In fact, I think it is one of the most important things we can do for others that makes us feel good.


Being nice to others is just the tip of a very large iceberg. What we do for others is a lot more than just being nice. You can’t just be nice. Being nice is an easy way to make other people feel good. Being nice is a way to show them that you’re a good person and that you make other people happy.

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